“A must-read for every mother who has been abused…it offers the knowledge women need to protect their children and help them heal.”-William S. Help their kids feel good about themselves.Increase their chances of winning custody For over twenty years Lundy Bancroft, the author of the national bestseller Why Does He Do That, has specialized in counseling men who are unhealthy.He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and. Provide love, support, and positive role models, even in the midst of abuse Lundy has worked with over 1000 abusive men in his counseling groups. She feels guilty for getting him in trouble, having father of her children punished/jailed/restricted from seeing the children.Protect children and help them heal emotionally.This book, the first ever of its kind, shows mothers how to: Whether it’s physical or “just” emotional abuse, whether it’s aimed at them or you, whether they see or hear it, your kids need you. Written by a therapist who specializes in abusive men, this guide reveals how abusers interact with and. Written by a therapist who specializes in abusive men, this guide reveals how abusers interact with and manipulate children-and how mothers can help their children recover from the trauma of witnessing abuse.Ĭan my partner abuse me and still be a good parent? Should I stay with my partner for my children’s sake? How should I talk to my children about the abuse and help them heal? Am I a bad mother?Mothers in physically or emotionally abusive relationships ask themselves these questions every day. When Dad Hurts Mom audiobook, by Lundy Bancroft.

When dad hurts mom by lundy bancroft